Could anyone give me three concrete mathematical relations $R$ on $\mathbb{Z}$ that satisfy exactly two of the following, no two of which satisfy the same two axioms:
1) Axiom of reflexivity ($\forall a\in \mathbb{Z}, (a,a)\in R$)
2) Symmetric axiom ($\forall a,b\in \mathbb{Z} ((a,b)\in R\Leftrightarrow (b,a)\in R$)
3) Axiom of transitivity ($\forall a,b,c\in\mathbb{Z} (((a,b)\in R\wedge (b,c)\in R)\Rightarrow (a,c)\in R$)
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I'm completely lost as to how to find a relation that's reflexive and symmetric but not transitive. And the same goes for finding relations that are reflexive and transitive but not symmetric and relations that are symmetric and transitive but not reflexive.
I know the relation $(a,b)$ on $\mathbb{Z}$ defined as $a^2 + b^2 =1$ is symmetric but neither transitive nor reflexive. Personally, I'm not even sure there exists a relation that is reflexive and symmetric but not transitive, because I hypothesize that reflexive relations imply subtraction (i.e. they can always be rearranged so that some part of the equation has $(a-b)$ in it). I've thought of as many relations as I could, but with no luck. $a|b$, $ad=bc$ for some $c,d\in\mathbb{Z}$, and $a^m=b^n$ for some $m,n\in\mathbb{Z}$ are all equivalence relations.
Btw, if some of these relations do not exist, could someone at least give me a hint as to how to prove why that is?
This is an example of a tolerance relation. Tolerance relations, like this example, admit things that are "close" to each other but aknowledge that two objects might both be close to a third object without being close to each other.
This is an example of a partial order. These, alongside equivalence relations, are the primary subclasses of relations that get studied, since they describe the inequalities of numbers that we are used to.
There is a fairly common false proof that symmetric and transitive relations must be reflexive, but the empty relation is a counterexample. For the most part, common and well-behaved relations that you would verify as equivalence relations will very clearly be seen to be reflexive, but it is a part of the proof that must be verified.