Let $H$ be a real Hilbert space, and let $B : H \times H \to \mathbb{R}$ be bilinear and symmetric. Suppose there is a constant $C$ such that for all $x \in H$, $|B(x,x)| \le C \|x\|^2$. Must $B$ be continuous?
This seems like it should just be a simple polarization argument, but for some reason I can't see it.
For $t > 0$, $$4 |B(x,y)| = |B(x/t+ty,x/t+ty) - B(x/t-ty,x/t-ty)| \le C (\|x/t+ty\|^2 + \|x/t-ty\|^2) \le 2 C (\|x\|/t+t\|y\|)^2$$ Take $t = \sqrt{\|x\|/\|y\|}$.