So there is a recusive sequence $\{a_n\}$ with
\begin{equation}a_n-a_{n-1}+\frac{2}{n}a_{n-2}=0, \quad (n\geq 2)\tag1 \end{equation}
values of $a_0$ and $a_1$ being arbitrary. Is it true that:
Conjecture 1. $\{a_n\}$ is eventually positive or eventually negative, or
Conjecture 2. $\{a_n\}=O(n^{-2}\,)$?
Notes
Conjecture 1 implies Conjecture 2 since if $\{a_n\}$ is eventually of the same sign, then $b_n:=n(n-1)a_n$ satisfies $$b_{n}=b_{n-1}-4a_{n-3}$$ and hence $\{b_n\}$ is bounded, so $a_n=O(n^{-2}\,)$ follows.
So the problem boils down to:
Prove/Disprove Conjecture 1, or
Prove/Disprove Conjecture 2 in a separated way.
Supporting Conjecture 1 are the first 21 terms of the sequence with $a_0=0, a_1=1$: \begin{multline*}0,1, 1,{{1}\over{3}}, -{{1}\over{6}}, -{{3}\over{10}}, -{{11}\over{45}}, -{{10}\over{63}}, -{{41}\over{420}}, -{{101}\over{1620}}, -{{607}\over{14175}}, -{{1091}\over{34650}},\\ -{{2278}\over{93555}}, -{{10783}\over{552825}}, -{{227407}\over{14189175}}, -{{659441}\over{49116375}}, -{{8335507}\over{729729000}},\\ -{{56984107}\over{5789183400}}, -{{837616139}\over{97692469875}}, -{{3292116007}\over{436742806500}}, -{{27555605257}\over{4124793172500}}\end{multline*} and $a_0=1,a_1=0$: \begin{multline*}1, 0, -1, -1, -{{1}\over{2}}, -{{1}\over{10}}, {{1}\over{15}}, {{2}\over{21}}, {{11}\over{140}}, {{31}\over{540}}, {{197}\over{4725}}, {{361}\over{11550}}, {{758}\over{31185}},\\ {{3593}\over{184275}}, {{75797}\over{4729725}}, {{219811}\over{16372125}}, {{2778497}\over{243243000}}, {{18994697}\over{1929727800}},\\ {{279205369}\over{32564156625}}, {{1097371997}\over{145580935500}}, {{9185201747}\over{1374931057500}}\end{multline*}
Finally, I also want to know where to find more material on non-autonomous recurrence relations like $(1)$.
I made some computations a couple of years ago:
Proof. Let $A_{n}$ and $B_{n}$ be sequences of $2\times 2$ matrices defined by
\begin{align*} A_{n} = \begin{pmatrix} 1 & \tfrac{a}{n} \\ 1 & 0 \end{pmatrix}, \quad B_{n} = \begin{pmatrix} -\tfrac{a}{n} & 1+\tfrac{a}{n} \\ 1 & 1 \end{pmatrix}. \end{align*}
Note that $A_n$ are designed to realize the recurrence relation of $(a_n)$, which means that the following identity holds.
\begin{align*} \begin{pmatrix} a_{n} \\ a_{n-1} \end{pmatrix} = A_{n} \cdots A_{2} \begin{pmatrix} a_{1} \\ a_{0} \end{pmatrix}, \quad n \geq 2. \end{align*}
Now we introduce $\tilde{A}_{n} = B_{n+1}^{-1} A_{n} B_{n}$. After some tedious calculation, we check that
\begin{align*} \tilde{A}_{n} &= \frac{1}{n (n+2a+1)} \begin{pmatrix} -a n - a(a+1) & (a-1) a \\ -a^{2} & n^{2} + (3a+1) n + (a^{2} + 2 a) \end{pmatrix} \\ &= \begin{pmatrix} -\tfrac{a}{n} & 0 \\ 0 & 1 + \tfrac{a}{n} \end{pmatrix} + \mathcal{O}\left( \frac{1}{n^{2}} \right). \end{align*}
Thus for sufficiently large $n$, the operator norm $\| \tilde{A}_{n} \|$ of $\tilde{A}_{n}$ satisfies the following bound
\begin{align*} \| \tilde{A}_{n} \| \leq 1 + \frac{a}{n} + \mathcal{O}\left( \frac{1}{n^{2}} \right). \end{align*}
Applying this to $A_{n} \cdots A_{2}$, we have
\begin{align*} \| A_{n} \cdots A_{2} \| &= \| B_{n+1} \tilde{A}_{n} \cdots \tilde{A}_{2} B_{2} \| \lesssim \exp \left\{ \sum_{k=2}^{n} \frac{a}{k} + \mathcal{O}\left( \frac{1}{k^{2}} \right) \right\} \lesssim n^{a}. \end{align*}
This proves our bound as desired. ////
Intuitions behind the proof are as follows:
Write the recurrence equation as $a_{n} - a_{n-1} = (a/n)a_{n-2}$. Heuristically, its continuous analogue is $y' = (a/x) y$. Then it is easy to check that the solution is of the form $y = c x^{a}$. So we can expect a similar asymptotic behavior for $a_{n}$.
The column vectors of $B_{n}$ are very close (up to $\mathcal{O}(n^{-2})$) to eigenvectors of $A_{n}$. Thus $\tilde{A}_{n}$ is essentially the matrix representation of $A_{n}$ with respect to eigenvectors of $A_{n}$ and $A_{n+1}$.