Definition of the essential supremum is
$$||f||_{\infty}=\text{inf}\{a\geq 0:\mu(\{x:|f(x)|>a\})=0\}.$$
So $||f||_{\infty}$ is not necessarily supremum of $f$.
question 1, It uses that for any $x_n$ belonging to the domain of the functions, $$|f(x_n)+g(x_n)|\leq||f+g||_{\infty}$$ and then takes limit of the both sides.
I cannot understand it. Because $||f+g||_{\infty}$ is not supremum of $f+g$.
Can anyone explain it?
Moreover, in Folland's book page 186, if $f$ is defined on a set $A$ and the measure is counting measure, then it writes $$||f||_{\infty}^p=\text{sup}_{\alpha}|f(\alpha)|^p$$
Let's assume that $\left\Vert f \right\Vert_\infty < \infty$ since otherwise the inequality $$ |f(x)| \leq \left\Vert f\right\Vert_\infty $$ is trivial.
You should interpret $\left\Vert f\right\Vert_\infty$ as the smallest value of $a \geq 0$ such that $|f(x)| \leq a$ for almost every $x \in X$. To make this formal note that by definition of the infimum, we can choose a sequence $(\alpha_n)$ belonging to the set $$ \{a\geq 0:\mu(\{x:|f(x)|>a\})=0\} $$ such that $\alpha_n \to \left\Vert f \right\Vert_\infty$ as $n \to \infty$. By definition, we must have $|f(x)| \leq \alpha_n$ for almost every $x \in X$. That is, for each $n \geq 1$, there exists a set $Z_n$ of measure zero with the property that $$ |f(x)| \leq \alpha_n \quad \forall x \notin Z_n. $$ Now, $Z := \bigcup_{n \geq 1} Z_n$ will also have measure zero and, moreover, for every $n \geq 1$ there holds $$ |f(x)| \leq \alpha_n \quad \forall x \notin Z. $$ For each of these $x$, taking the limit as $n \to \infty$ shows that $$ |f(x)| \leq \left\Vert f\right\Vert_\infty \quad \forall x \notin Z. $$ Since $Z$ has measure zero, this means that $|f(x)| \leq \left\Vert f\right\Vert_\infty$ for almost every $x \in X$. As for when a set is given the counting measure, note that any non-empty set has positive measure. Hence, almost everywhere really becomes "everywhere".