Is it possible to prove that for the regularized Harmonic series
$$ \tag 1\sum_{n=1}^{\infty} \frac{e^{-n\epsilon}}{n}=\gamma + 1/\epsilon $$
if epsilon is very small $ \epsilon \to 0 $ i can use $ e^{-n\epsilon}=1-n\epsilon $ , to the Harmonic series appear
however if i use the Polylogarithm i get
$$ \sum_{n=1}^{\infty} \frac{e^{-n\epsilon}}{n}=log(1-e^{-\epsilon})$$
so no constant appear, how can I prove $(1)$?
You cannot prove (1) because it is indeed not true. In fact $$\sum_{n=1}^\infty \frac{e^{-n\varepsilon}}{n}\sim -\log(\varepsilon)$$ as $\varepsilon\to 0^+$, so certainly this cannot be equivalent to $1/\varepsilon$, as would follow from (1).
The above equivalence is proved as follows: as you mentioned, $\sum_{1}^\infty \frac{e^{-n\varepsilon}}{n}=-\log(1-e^{-\varepsilon})$; but $1-e^{-\varepsilon}=\varepsilon+O(\varepsilon^2)$ because $e^{-\varepsilon}=1-\varepsilon +O(\varepsilon^2)$, so $$\log(1-e^{-\varepsilon} )=\log(\varepsilon+O(\varepsilon^2))=\log(\varepsilon)+\log(1+O(\varepsilon))\sim\log(\varepsilon)\, ,$$ which gives the result.