I am trying to follow the argument in this answer. Quoting:
Since all elements in $V$ are involutions, it's easy to check $V$ is a subgroup. Note that any conjugation will not change the order of an element. If $\exists s,v$ such that $svs^{-1}\notin V$, $svs^{-1}$ must be of the form $(i\ j)$. Then by symmetry, all elements of form $(i\ j)$ will be in the conjugacy class containing $V$. So the conjugacy class containing $V$ will consist of $6+3+1=10$ elements, which doesn't divide $|S_4|=24$. Contradiction.
What I don't see is why "by symmetry, all elements of form $(ij)$ will be in the conjugacy class of $V$". How to see this?
The "symmetry" is just an application of the following general fact:
The proof of the normality of $V$ in $S_4$ can be made shorter by observing that the non-trivial elements of the $V$ are precisely the permutations in $S_4$ whose cyclic structure is the product of two transpositions, so the claim immediately follows.