Is $R$ reflexive? Is $R$ symmetric? Is $R$ transitive?
I know $a=b$ is an equivalence relation so it is reflexive, symmetric, and transitive. I know $a-b=2^n$ is reflexive but not symmetric or transitive. Not symmetric because: $6-2=2^2$ but $2-6$ cannot be expressed as $2^{\text{natural number}}$. Not transitive because: $6-4=2^1$ and $4-3=2^0$ but $6-3$ cannot be expressed as $2^{\text{natural number}}$.
I did the truth tables for $P$ iff $Q$ or $R$ and the statement is true if either $Q$ and $R$ are both true, $Q$ is true and $R$ is false, or $R$ is true and $Q$ is false. Therefore, I thought it would be enough to show that because $a=b$ is an equivalence relation, $aRb$ iff $a=b$ or $a-b=2^n$ is an equivalence relation too. However, I got this question wrong on an exam. Do you have to show that both $a=b$ and $a-b=2^n$ are equivalence relations to show $aRb$ is one?
You cannot "split" this into two relations, you have to treat it as a whole. Put it in brackets if it helps: $$a\,R\,b\quad\hbox{if and only if}\quad (a=b\ \hbox{or}\ a-b=2^n\ \hbox{for some $n\in\Bbb N$})\ .$$ Now if $a=b$ then the RHS is true (because the first part is true), so $a\,R\,b$. That is, $a\,R\,a$ for all $a$, and $R$ is reflexive.
For symmetry you might think through the problem like this: suppose $a\,R\,b$. Does it necessarily follow that $b\,R\,a$? Well, since $a\,R\,b$, one possibility is that $a=b$: then certainly $b=a$ and so $b\,R\,a$. But what if $a\ne b$? Then $a-b$ is a power of $2$: does this mean that either $b=a$ or $b-a$ is a power of $2$? Obviously not for the first, and not for the second either because $b-a$ will be negative. This should suggest the example that $3\,R\,1$ but $1\,\not R\,3$. Then all you need to say for the answer is:
In the same way you can show that $R$ is not transitive. Try it for yourself.