I am trying to convert $\Delta=\nabla^2 = \frac{\partial^2}{\partial x^2} + \frac{\partial^2}{\partial y^2}$ to polar coordinates. If anyone has any references on how to do that I would appreciate it.
In my evaluation, I am messing with a lot of partials. Alghough, I am not sure as to if partials are commutative, and google has not been helping me. Enough of a prompt; is this true? $$ \frac{\partial u}{\partial x}\frac{\partial y}{\partial r}=\frac{\partial u}{\partial r}\frac{\partial y}{\partial x} $$ In the previous equation I just switched the denominators.
First of all: you cannot just switch the denominators like that.
Partial derivatives kind of commute, but not in the sense you are implying. Suppose I have a function $f(x,y)$. Then it is the case that
$$ \frac{\partial}{\partial x} \frac{\partial}{\partial y} f(x,y) = \frac{\partial}{\partial y} \frac{\partial}{\partial x} f(x,y) $$
The partial derivatives commute in this particular case since $x,y$ are independent. That is, $\partial x/\partial y = \partial y/\partial x = 0$.
It is not the case, however, that arbitrary partial derivatives commute. For example, if we were to introduce $r = \sqrt{x^2 + y^2}$, then the partials would not commute.
$$ \frac{\partial}{\partial x} \frac{\partial}{\partial r} f(x,y) \ne \frac{\partial}{\partial r} \frac{\partial}{\partial x} f(x,y) $$
It also isn't the case that partial derivatives commute with functions. For example
$$ \frac{\partial}{\partial x} f(x,y) g(x,y) \ne f(x,y) \frac{\partial}{\partial x} g(x,y) $$
To compute gradients and other vector calculus operations in different coordinate systems, you need to use the multivariate chain rule.