1) Is there a name for associative Lie algebra that does not require Jacobi identity to hold?
2) Can such algebra exist, and if it does exist, can this algebra contain infinitely many elements?
3) Regardless of whether number of elements is finite or not, can anyone present an example of how ordinary integers or vectors can be used to define such algebra?
This is simply called an anticommutative associative algebra. Any module can be given this structure by giving it the zero product: $[x,y] = 0$ for all $x,y$. Other examples include exterior algebras $\Lambda(x_1, x_2, \dots)$. Such an algebra can contain infinitely many elements (give $\mathbb{Z}$ the zero product).