As far as I know, there are two different notions to the word "infinity" in Mathematics.
First notion of infinity has to do with the cardinality of a set: if a set contains infinite number of elements, the set is said to be an "infinite set"; this notion of infinity deals with "how many".
Second notion of infinity deals with "how large" rather than "how many" - here, infinity is simply a "infinitely large number", that is, one that is greater than any numbers.
I have heard that some mathematician proved that one infinity can be larger than other infinity, but I have also heard that the proof only has to do with the first notion of infinity.
What about in terms of the second notion of infinity - say you have two infinitely large numbers (again, this is different than having a set with infinite number of elements). Can one infinitely large number be greater than other infinitely large number?
Your second question needs clarification (what exactly do you mean by "number"?), but here's one interpretation:
An ordered field is a set $S$ together with operations $+$ and $\times$, and a binary relation $<$, such that
$(S, +, \times)$ is a field
$<$ is a total order on $S$, and
$<$ is "compatible" with the field structure (e.g. $a<b$ implies $a+c<b+c$, etc.)
An ordered field is Archimedean if for each $x>0$ there is some natural number $n$ such that $1+1+...$ ($n$-many times) is $>x$. For example, $\mathbb{R}$ is an ordered field. Perhaps surprisingly, there are lots of non-Archimedean ordered fields! In such fields, an element $x$ is often called "infinite" if $x>1+1+...$ ($n$ times) for every natural number $n$. Now infinite elements can be distinguished - e.g. if $x$ is infinite, so is $x+1$, and $x<x+1$.
Note that this is not what is meant when people talk about limits at infinity - there, if we're even treating "$\infty$" as a real thing and not just a convenient shorthand, we're considering a number system (usually called the extended real line) $\mathbb{R}\cup\{\infty, -\infty\}$. Among other things, this system satisfies $\infty+1=\infty$. It's easy to check (and a good exercise) that this system is not a field.
Tl;dr: it depends what you mean by "number." Note that, by contrast, cardinality of a set is precisely defined.