I am looking for a reference in which I can find a proof of the following result.
A strongly regular graph is disconnected if and only if it is a disjoint union of complete graphs $K_n$ of the same size.
A strongly regular graph connected if and only if it is a distance-regular graph of diameter 2.
A graph is $(k,\lambda,\mu)$-strongly regular if each vertex has degree $k$, every two adjacent vertices have $\lambda$ common neighbors, and every two non-adjacent vertices have $\mu$ common neighbors.
When $\mu = 0$, two non-adjacent vertices have no common neighbors either; in other words, if there is a path of length $2$ between two vertices, then they are adjacent. By induction we can show that for all $\ell>1$, if there is a path of length $\ell$ between two vertices, then they are adjacent. Therefore non-adjacent vertices must be in different connected components, which means every component is a clique.
When $\mu > 0$, the graph has diameter $2$ because any two non-adjacent vertices have at least one common neighbor. We can check that it's distance-regular by considering all possibilities.