I'm doing some independent reading on the Lebesgue measure and I have the following questions:
1) on the definition of a Lebesgue measurable set: Let $E \subseteq \mathbb{R} $. On Wikipedia, $$\mu(E) = \mu^*(E) \iff \mu^*(A) = \mu^*(A\cap E) + \mu^*(A\cap E^c) \, \, \text{for every} \, \, A \subseteq \mathbb{R}.$$ However on another text, the definition of Lebesgue measurable is defined as $$ \mu(E) = \mu^*(E) \iff \mu^*(A) = \mu^*(A\cap E) + \mu^*(A ^c\cap E) \, \, \text{for every} \, \, A \subseteq \mathbb{R}.$$ The subtle, yet seemingly important, distinction is which intersection we're looking at. Is this distinction important? Are these two definitions equivalent? If so, could you please explain the compatibility?
2) on the motivation for such a definition: why is Lebesgue measurable defined in this way? Why not stop at the definition of $\mu^*(E)$? What is the motivation for using $E$ as a "partitioning" (for a lack of better words) set? And why do we require this for every $A \subseteq \mathbb{R}$?
3) on the existence of counter-examples: What are some common examples of non-Lebesgue measurable sets? Where does the importance of defining measurable in the above way(s) appear in these examples? I.e. what is an example of a set in which defining measurability differently fails to capture the "desired" property?
If we denote the Lebesgue outer measure by $m^{*}$, then you know $m^{*}$ is a function from $\mathcal{P}(\Bbb R)$ (the set of all subsets of $\Bbb R$) to $[0, \infty]$.
But $m^{*}$ is only an outer measure. In order for it to be a measure, we need to restrict its domain. So we won't be able to find the Lebesgue measure of every subset of $\Bbb R$. Then which subsets of $\Bbb R$ can we "measure" with Lebesgue measure? We can measure the sets that split every subset of $\Bbb R$. It turns out these sets form a $\sigma$-algebra, and $m^{*}$ satisfies the properties of a measure on this $\sigma$-algebra. We call the $\sigma$-algebra: the $\sigma$-algebra of Lebesgue measurable sets. We denote the restriction of $m^{*}$ to this $\sigma$-algebra by $m$.
Now, the point of your question is: what does it mean for an element of this $\sigma$-algebra to "split" every subset of $\Bbb R$? Well, we say $E$ is Lebesgue measurable if for every $A \subseteq \Bbb R$, $m^{*}(A) = m^{*}(A \cap E) + m^{*}(A \cap E^{c})$. And it makes intuitive sense why we use the word "split" -- we are dividing or splitting the elements of $A$ into those that are also in $E$ and those not in $E$, and the sum of the outer measures of each of these sets equals the measure of the whole set.