So I have following axioms. $$\begin{array} &[A_1]&(u+v)+w=u+(v+w) \\ [A_2] & u+0=0+u=u \\ [A_3] & u+(-u) =(-u)+u=0 \\ [A_4] &u+v=v+u\end{array} $$
$u,v\in V$, a vector space and $0$ is the zero element. I want to prove axiom 4 using others. Here is my proof, I wanted to know if I made unnessary steps. $$u=u \\ u+v+(-v)=(-v)+v+u \\ (u+v)+(-v)=(-v)+(v+u) \\ \implies [(u+v)+(-v)]+[-((-v)+(v+u))]=0 \\ (u+v)+(-(v+u))=0 \\ u+v=v+u$$
And here I have taken $-(-v)=v$ which can be proved seperately without using $A_4$.
Here is the usual proof. It uses distributivity.
$(1+1)(u+v) = (1+1)u + (1+1)v = u + u + v + v$
$(1+1)(u+v) = 1(u+v) + 1(u+v) = 1u + 1v + 1u +1v = u + v + u + v$
Therefore, $u + u + v + v = u + v + u + v$.
Now add $-u$ on the left of both expressions and $-v$ on the right to conclude $u+v=v+u$.
Note how associativity is used everywhere.