For two days I reflect on this question without an answer:
If $A=(i+j-1)_{1\le i,j\le n}$ is matrix in $\mathcal M_n(\mathbb R)$, the question is to find basis in which $A$ is congruent to diagonal matrix. I know that since I look for a congruent matrix I'll consider $A$ as matrix of a quadratic form and since $A$ is symmetric then it's diagonalizable in an orthonormal basis but how I can find it? Any help would be appreciated.
step1:Find the characteristic polynomial of $A$, then characteristic values of it;
step2:Find the characteristic vectors belonging to each characteristic value;
step3:Schimidt orthogonalizate these values and then unit them.
Then you will get the orthonormal basis you want.