All groups are finite here. Let $G=\langle a,b \rangle \times H$, $a,b$ commute, $G_{1}=\langle a \rangle \times H_{1}$ and $G_{2}=\langle a \rangle \times H_{2}$ where $H_{1}$ and $H_{2}$ are subgroups of $H$. If $G_{1}$ and $G_{2}$ are conjugate, are $H_{1}$ and $H_{2}$ conjugate?
I'm aware that $s(M\times N)s^{-1}=sMs^{-1} \times sNs^{-1}$. So there is $g\in G$ s.t. $g(\langle a \rangle \times H_{1})g^{-1}=g \langle a \rangle g^{-1} \times gH_{1}g^{-1} = \langle a \rangle \times H_{2}$. Can we deduce from this that $g \langle a \rangle g^{-1} = \langle a \rangle$ and $gH_{1}g^{-1} = H_{2}$? It feels a bit off to me. Thx
Sorry, I misread the question initially, partly because the element $b$ seems to be irrelevant to the question.
We have $a,b \in Z(G)$, so if the subgroups $\langle a,H_1\rangle$ and $\langle a,H_2\rangle$ are conjugate in $G$, then they are conjugate in $H$, and so the answer is yes.
There is no need to assume that all groups are finite.