Let $[a,b]\subset \mathbb{R}$. A tagged partition of $[a,b]$ is a set $D=\{(t_i,I_i)\}_{i=1}^m$ where $\{I_i\}_{i=1}^m$ is a partition of $[a,b]$ consisting of closed non-overlapping subintervals of $[a,b]$ and $t_i\in I_i$; $t_i$ is called the tag associated with $I_i$.
Suppose that $D=\{(t_i,I_i)\}_{i=1}^m$ and $D'=\{(s_j,J_j)\}_{i=1}^n$ are any two tagged partitions of $[a,b]$. We say that $D'$ is finer than $D$ if for each $j\in\{1,2,\cdots,n\}$, there exists $i\in\{1,2,\cdots,m\}$ such that $J_j\subset I_i$ and every tag in $D$ is a tag in $D'$.
Let $\delta:[a,b]\to (0,+\infty)$ be a positive function. We say that a tagged partition $D=\{(t_i,I_i)\}_{i=1}^m$ is $\delta$-fine if $$I_i\subset(t_i-\delta(t_i),t_i+\delta(t_i))\quad\mbox{for } i=1,2,\cdots,m.$$
Question:
Suppose $D$ and $D'$ are $\delta$-fine tagged partitions of $[a,b]$. How do we construct a third $\delta$-fine tagged partition $E$ of $[a,b]$ such that $E$ is both finer than $D$ and $D'$?
There are two things to keep track of:
On an intuitive level, they can be taken care of by the family $(I_i \cap J_j)_{i,j}$, placing the old tags as appropriate, and making up some new ones for those intervals not containing an old tag (this may require further splitting of the intervals, depending on $\delta$). We also need to split those $I_i \cap J_j$ that contain both $t_i$ and $s_j$ (presuming they are distinct, of course).
A more detailed version of the sketch above:
Denote $K_{ij} = I_i \cap J_j$; then $(K_{ij})_{ij}$ is a partition of $[a,b]$ of the required form.
Note that if we produce a tagged partition $E_{ij}$ for each $K_{ij}$, we can amalgamate these into a tagged partition $E$ of $[a,b]$. So fix a $K_{ij}$, and distinguish four cases:
This construction yields a tagged partition $E_{ij}$ of each $K_{ij}$, and hence of $[a,b]$; call this latter tagged partition $E$. It is to be verified that $E$ refines $D$ and $D'$.
Now each $K_{ij}$ is contained in both $I_i$ and $J_j$, and hence all intervals used for $E_{ij}$ are, too; furthermore, each tag $t_i, s_j$ occurs in some $K_{ij}$, and by construction remains a tag in $E$. Thus $E$ refines $D$ and $D'$.
Finally, it remains to establish that $E$ is $\delta$-fine. We restrict attention to the tags within one $E_{ij}$. If this $E_{ij}$ was formed using one of the first three constructions, it is immediate from the $\delta$-fineness of $D$ and $D'$ that $E_{ij}$ is $\delta$-fine. For the fourth construction, observe that $L_{r_k}$ is strictly contained in $(r_k-\delta(r_k),r_k+\delta(r_k))$, since $\delta(r_k)>0$; therefore, $\bar L_{r_k}$ is also contained in this set, and hence so are the intervals used in the partition. In conclusion, all $E_{ij}$, and consequently $E$, are $\delta$-fine.