Suppose $a_i,b_{ij}\in\mathbb{R}$ and $$ 0\le \lim_{n\to\infty} \sum_{i=1}^n\sum_{j=1}^n c_{ij}a_ia_j< \infty. $$
Does it follow that $\sum_{j=1}^\infty c_{ij}a_j$ converges for all $i$? (Clarification: The individual summands are not nonnegative, and I do not want to assume absolute summability.)
Try $c_{ii} = 2$ for all $i$, $c_{i1} = c_{1i} = -1$ for $i \ge 2$, all other $c_{ij} = 0$, and all $a_i = 1$. Then $\sum_{i=1}^n \sum_{j=1}^n c_{ij} a_i a_j = 2$ for all $n$ but $\sum_{j=1}^\infty c_{1j} a_j$ diverges.