So I am not really comfortable with equivalence relations, so this example from Wikipedia gives me trouble. Here is what it says:
Let the set $\{a,b,c\}$ have the equivalence relation $\{(a,a),(b,b),(c,c),(b,c),(c,b)\}$.
So it can also be $\lbrace(a,a), (b,b), (c,c) \rbrace$ if I so choose?
Your relation is indeed an equivalence relation:
Reflexivity clearly holds, as symmetry does. Transitivity does hold since
$$\forall x,y,z\in X: xRy \wedge yRz \implies xRz $$
is a true statement: $xRy \wedge yRz$ is true in this case if and only if $x=y=z$, in which case clearly (reflexivity) $xRz$.
EDIT: Simpler argument (without symbolic logic)
You want to prove that the relation $R=\lbrace(a,a), (b,b), (c,c) \rbrace$ defined on the set $X=\{a,b,c\}$ is an equivalence relation, so you must prove three properties:
We now prove those properties.
Please notice not every relation you define on $X$ becomes an equivalence relation. For example, if you choose to add (only) $(a,b)$ to $R$, then symmetry is lost.