I'm looking to reproduce \begin{align} \partial_{j_m,j_n}\bigg|_{\bf{j}=0}\exp\left(\frac12\bf{j}^\top\bf{B}\bf{j}\right) = B_{mn} \end{align} where $B_{mn}=B_{nm}$ is a real, symmetric, positive-definite $N\times N$ matrix. I have tried the following, and I know this is incorrect due to the surplus of indices. \begin{align} \partial_{j_m,j_n}\bigg|_{\bf{j}=0}\exp\left(\frac12j_mB_{mn}j_n\right) &= \left[\partial_{j_m} \frac12B_{mn}j_m\exp\left(\frac12j_mB_{mn}j_n\right)\right]_{\bf{j}=0} \\ &= \left[\frac12B_{mn}\exp\left(\frac12j_mB_{mn}j_n\right) + \frac14B_{mn}j_mB_{mn}j_n\exp\left(\frac12j_mB_{mn}j_n\right)\right]_{\bf{j}=0} \\ &= \frac12B_{mn} \end{align}
I'm naively working with the indices it seems. Can someone clarify my mistakes?
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With Jiaqi Li's answer, I think I've understood how to go about this: \begin{align} \partial_{j_m,j_n}\exp\left(\frac12j_rB_{rs}j_s\right) &= \frac12\partial_{j_m}\left[\left(B_{ns}j_s+j_rB_{rn}\right)\exp\left(\frac12j_rB_{rs}j_s\right) \right] \\ &= \frac12\left[\left(B_{nm}+B_{mn}\right)\exp\left(\frac12j_rB_{rs}j_s\right) \\ \qquad\qquad\qquad\qquad+ \frac12\left(B_{ns}j_s+j_rB_{rn}\right)\left(B_{ms}j_s+j_rB_{rm}\right)\exp\left(\frac12j_rB_{rs}j_s\right) \right] \\ \end{align}
This appears to evaluate to the desired result for $\bf{B}$ symemtric. The two major mistakes were the initial usage of the same indices inside the exponential and forgetting that $\frac{\partial x_i}{\partial x_j} = \delta_{ij}$.
Using doubled index sum notation the result is straightforward. $$ \left.\frac{\partial}{\partial x_m}\frac{\partial}{\partial x_n} e^{\frac12 x_iB_{ij}x_j}\right|_{x=0}\\ =\left.\frac{\partial}{\partial x_m} \frac 12 (B_{nq}x_q+x_pB_{pn})e^{\frac12 x_iB_{ij}x_j}\right|_{x=0}\\ =\left.(\frac 12 (B_{nm}+B_{mn})+\frac 14 (B_{nq'}x_{q'}+x_{p'}B_{p'n})(B_{mq''}x_{q''}+x_{p''} B_{p''m}))e^{\frac12 x_iB_{ij}x_j}\right|_{x=0}\\ =\frac 12 (B_{nm}+B_{mn})\\ $$ The given result holds when $B$ is symmetric.