I am trying to find derivative of this : RQ(u) = uTXTXu / uTu
I need help finding derivative : RQ/u
Optimal sol should satisfy XTXu = RQ(u)u
I am very confused, any help would be great. If you could share some references that will be very helpful too.
The quantity you are interested in is known as the Rayleigh Quotient. We have
$$ \frac{\partial}{\partial u} \frac{u^T X^T X u}{u^T u} = \frac{1}{u^T u} \frac{\partial}{\partial u}(u^T X^T X u) + (u^T X^T X u) \frac{\partial}{\partial u}(u^T u)^{-1} $$
Now use $\frac{\partial}{\partial u} u^T A u = 2Au$ for symmetric matrix $A$: $$ \implies\frac{\partial}{\partial u} RQ(u) = \frac{2X^T X u }{u^T u} - \frac{ (u^T X^T X u) 2 I u}{(u^T u)^2} = \frac{2}{u^T u }\big(X^T X - RQ(u)\cdot I\big)u $$
In particular, if $u$ is a maximizer/minimizer of $RQ$ then
$$ 0 = \frac{\partial}{\partial u} RQ(u) \implies \big(X^T X - RQ(u)\cdot I\big)u =0 $$
If you are unsure about the matrix derivatives, I recommend this online tool: http://www.matrixcalculus.org/, and for fomulas wikipedia and The Matrix Cook Book