For $1\leq i,j\leq m$, let $f_{ij}:\mathbb{R}^{m^{2}} \to \mathbb{R}$ defined by $f_{ij}(X)V = (X^{2})_{ij}$. For any $X,V \in \mathbb{R}^{m^{2}}$, show that $df_{ij}(X)V$ is the $ij$-th element of the matrix $XV + VX$. Get a similar result with $X^{3}$. Generalize.
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Recall the definition of the differential. $df_{ij}(X) : \mathbb{R}^{m^2} \to \mathbb{R}$ is the unique linear map such that
$$\lim_{H \to 0} \frac{\left|f_{ij}(X + H) - f_{ij}(X) - df_{ij}(X)H\right|}{\|H\|} = 0$$
where $\|\cdot\|$ is the euclidean norm on matrices.
It suffices to verify that $V \mapsto (XV + VX)_{ij}$ satisfies the above limit.
\begin{align} \lim_{H \to 0} \frac{\left|f_{ij}(X + H) - f_{ij}(X) - (XH + HX)_{ij}\right|}{\|H\|} &= \lim_{H \to 0} \frac{\left|((X + H)^2)_{ij} - (X^2)_{ij} - (XH + HX)_{ij}\right|}{\|H\|}\\ &= \lim_{H \to 0}\frac{\left|(X^2 + XH + HX + H^2)_{ij} - (X^2)_{ij} - (XH + HX)_{ij}\right|}{\|H\|}\\ &= \lim_{H\to 0} \frac{\left|(H^2)_{ij}\right|}{\|H\|}\\ &\le \lim_{H\to 0} \frac{\|H^2\|}{\|H\|}\\ &\le \lim_{H\to 0} \frac{\|H\|^2}{\|H\|}\\ &= \lim_{H\to 0} \|H\|\\ &= 0 \end{align}
Therefore $df_{ij}(X)V = (XV + VX)_{ij}$.