Say that for some group $A$ who has a normal subgroup $B$, and for some group $C$ who has a normal subgroup $D$, we know that $A/B$ is isomorphic to $C/D$ and that $B$ is isomorphic to $D$. Is $A$ necessarily isomorphic to $C$?
EDIT: What if there is a homomorphism $\sigma: A \to C$?
As noted by the_fox, the answer to your question is “no.” In fact, if we have groups $A$ and $C$, normal subgroups $M\triangleleft A$ and $N\triangleleft C$, we can have:
Here are examples of each, with finite abelian groups. Cyclic groups are written multiplicatively, and when required, generated by an element $x$.
$A=C=C_p\times C_{p^2}$, $M=C_p\times\{e\}$, $N=\{e\}\times\{x^p\}$. Then $A/M\cong C_{p^2}$, but $C/N\cong C_p\times C_p$.
$A=C_p\times C_{p^2}$, $M=C_p\times \{x^p\}$, $N=\{e\}\times C_{p^2}$. Then $A/M\cong C/N\cong C_p$, but $M\cong C_p\times C_p$ and $N\cong C_{p^2}$.
$A=C_p\times C_p$, $C=C_{p^2}$, $M= C_p\times\{e\}$, and $N=\{x^p\}$. Then $M\cong N\cong C_p$, and $A/M\cong C/N\cong C_p$.