Let $A\in \mathbb R^{n\times n}$. Is it true that
$A$ similar to a symmetric matrix $\implies $ $A$ symmetric ?
Let $B$ symmetric s.t. $A=PBP^{-1}$. Then $$A^T=(P^{-1})^TB^T P^T=(P^{-1})^T BP^T.$$
For me there is no reason that $P$ is orthogonal, so I would say it's false a priori. But in the same time, this theorem should be true since operator is self adjoint $\iff$ it's diagonalizable. I also know that matrices in any basis of Self Adjoint operator are symmetric. But if A is similar to a symmetric matrix, then it's diagonalizable and thus self adjoint, and thus, it should be symmetric in any basis... this is wrong ? If yes, why ?
Try a $P$ that is not orthogonal.
Let me try $P=\begin{bmatrix} 2 & 0 \\ 0 & 1 \end{bmatrix}$, $P^{-1}=\begin{bmatrix} \frac12 & 0 \\ 0 & 1\end{bmatrix}$
Let $B=\begin{bmatrix} 1 & 1 \\ 1 & 1\end{bmatrix}$
then $$A=PBP^{-1}=\begin{bmatrix} 2 & 0 \\ 0 & 1\end{bmatrix}\begin{bmatrix} 1 & 1 \\ 1 & 1\end{bmatrix}\begin{bmatrix} \frac12 & 0 \\ 0 & 1\end{bmatrix}=\begin{bmatrix} 2 & 0 \\ 0 & 1\end{bmatrix}\begin{bmatrix} \frac12 & 1\\ \frac12 & 1\end{bmatrix}=\begin{bmatrix} 1 & 2\\ \frac12 & 1 \end{bmatrix}$$
which is not symmetrical.