Let $\mathfrak{g}$ and $\mathfrak{h}$ be two real Lie algebras. Now suppose their complexifications are isomorphic, that is, $$\mathfrak{g}_{\mathbb{C}}\simeq\mathfrak{h}_{\mathbb{C}}.$$.
Can I say anything about the "isomorphicness" of $\mathfrak{g}$ and $\mathfrak{h}$? i.e. do I necessarily have $$\mathfrak{g}\simeq\mathfrak{h}$$
Specifically I am curious about whether $$\mathfrak{su}(4)_{\mathbb{C}}=\mathfrak{sl}(4,\mathbb{C})\simeq \mathfrak{so}(6,\mathbb{C})=\mathfrak{so}(6,\mathbb{R})_\mathbb{C}$$ implies $$\mathfrak{su}(4)\simeq \mathfrak{so}(6,\mathbb{R})$$
I've constructed a counter example.
$$so(3,1)_\mathbb{C}\simeq so(4,\mathbb{C})\simeq sl(2,\mathbb{C})\oplus sl(2,\mathbb{C})=su(2)_\mathbb{C}\oplus su(2)_\mathbb{C}=(su(2)\oplus su(2))_\mathbb{C}$$
but it is not true that $so(3,1)\simeq su(2)\oplus su(2)$. In particular one is compact and the other is non-compact.
However, $so(4)\simeq su(2)\oplus su(2)$, so perhaps $g_\mathbb{C}\simeq h_\mathbb{C}$ implies $g\simeq h$ only if $g$ and $h$ are both compact, but I have not proven this.