I have a set $A= \{1,2,3,4\}$,
Reflexive Relation :
If $(a,a) \in R \ \forall a \in A$ then it's a reflexive relation.
Note : for all $a \in A$
This means, $R$ is a Reflexive Relation as long as it contains $(a,a)$ for all $a$ it doesn't matter what else is present in $R$.
Alright fine!
Symmetric Relation :
$(a,b) \in R \iff (b,a) \in R$ for all $ a,b \in A$
Again, note the for all
From here : https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Symmetric_relation
But I have learnt that, $ R = \{ (1,2), (2,1) \} $ is also a symmetric Relation. Then what happened to "for all" part?
Clearly not all elements of $A$ were used, but it's still symmetric? However, for reflexive relation for all part in the definition is a game changer?
Similarly with transitive relation, if $(a,b)$ and $(b,a) \in R \implies (a,c) \in R,$ for all $a,b,c \in A$ but we know $R= \{(1,2),(2,1),(1,1),(2,2) \}$ once again, I don't see the for all part happening here.
This is as detailed as I could've gotten with my doubt. Please help!
It is still "for all". The implication $$(1,3)\in R\iff (3,1)\in R$$ is true (as both sides are false), as are all other possible combinations.