In Exercise 3.2.1. Martin Ziegler, Katrin Tent: A Course in Model Theory it is stated:
Exercise 3.2.1. Let $L$ be the language containing a unary function $f$ and binary relation symbol $R$ and consider the $L$-theory $T=\{\forall x\forall y(R(x,y)\to R(x,f(y)))\}$. Show following
1) For any $T$-ec structure $\mathfrak{M}$ and $a,b\in M$ with $b\notin\{a,f^\mathfrak{M}(a),\left(f^\mathfrak{M}\right)^2(a),...\}$ we have $\mathfrak{M}\vDash\exists z(R(z,a)\wedge\neg R(z,b))$.
2) Let $\mathfrak{M}$ be a model of $T$ and $a$ an element of $M$ such that $\{a,f^\mathfrak{M}(a),\left(f^\mathfrak{M}\right)^2(a),...\}$ is infinite. Then in an elementar extension $\mathfrak{M}'$ there is an element $b$ with $\mathfrak{M}'\vDash\forall z(R(z,a)\to R(z,b))$.
3) The class of $T$-ec structures is not elementary, so $T$ does not have a model companion.
1) Seems clear to me: $\{\exists a\exists b\exists z(R(z,a)\wedge\neg R(z,b)\wedge \neg f^n(a)\dot{=}b)\;|\;n\geq 0\}$ is independent of $T$ therefore realized in a sufficiently large model $\mathfrak{B}\vDash T$ and by $\mathfrak{M}$ being $T$-ec we may assume $\mathfrak{M}\subseteq\mathfrak{B}$. Therefore, we may assume that there is $a$ in $M$ and $b\notin\{a,f^\mathfrak{M}(a),\left(f^\mathfrak{M}\right)^2(a),...\}$ so that $\mathfrak{M}\vDash\exists z(R(z,a)\wedge\neg R(z,b))$.
2) Seems confusingly stated. Any $b\in\{a,f^\mathfrak{M}(a),\left(f^\mathfrak{M}\right)^2(a),...\}$ satisfies the formula. Assume that $b\notin\{a,f^\mathfrak{M}(a),\left(f^\mathfrak{M}\right)^2(a),...\}$ is intended for $\mathfrak{M}'$, then the theory $\{\forall a\exists b\forall z(\neg(R(z,a)\wedge\neg R(z,b))\wedge \neg f^n(a)\dot{=}b)\;|\;n\geq 0\}$ is always satisfied by $\mathfrak{M}$ and any sufficiently large $\mathfrak{M}'\succ\mathfrak{M}$ for $b\notin M$. (I am confused about whether I got the point here.)
3) Now I am not sure how to combine a) and b) correctly to deduce the last statement. I assume the $|\{a,f^\mathfrak{M}(a),\left(f^\mathfrak{M}\right)^2(a),...\}|\geq\aleph_0$ property for $\mathfrak{M}:=\mathfrak{M}_2$ from b) makes sure, that $\mathfrak{M}_2$ is $T$-ec as it then satisfies $T_\infty=\{\exists x_1\cdots\exists x_n\,\bigwedge_{i<j}\neg x_i\dot{=}x_j\;|\;n\geq 1\}$ which has to be satisfied in any $T$-ec structure.
I am thankful for any hint.
There is a typo in part (2) of the question, which you've correctly identified. But aside from that, you seem to have a lot of serious misconceptions. I've written some line-by-line feedback below, I hope it helps!
The correct thing to say here is that this set of sentences is consistent with $T$. That means that the set is realized in some model of $T$. I'm not sure what the phrase "sufficiently large" is doing here.
Why?
This is not what the set of sentences you wrote down above expresses. To say that $\mathfrak{B}\models \{\exists a\exists b\exists z(R(z,a)\wedge\neg R(z,b)\wedge \neg f^n(a)=b)\mid n\geq 0\}$ is to say that for every $n\geq 0$, there is some $a_n$, some $b_n$, and some $z_n$ such that $\mathfrak{B}\models (R(z_n,a_n)\wedge\neg R(z_n,b_n)\wedge \neg f^n(a_n)=b_n)$. But there's no reason why we should have $a_n = a_m$ when $n\neq m$. Also, you're supposed to show the existence of such a $z$ for any $a$ and any $b\notin \{f^n(a)\mid n\geq 0\}$.
Hint: You know $\mathfrak{M}$ is $T$-ec. You want to show it satisfies the existential formula $\exists z\, (R(z,a)\land \lnot R(a,b))$ with parameters from $\mathfrak{M}$. So all you have to do is find some model of $T$ extending $\mathfrak{M}$ which satisfies that formula...
Correct, this condition should be written in the exercise.
Your assertion about this theory is both false and irrelevant to what you want to show. Think about what it means for $\mathfrak{M}$ to individually satisfy each of the sentences you wrote down.
Hint: To actually solve this part of the exercise, look at the type $$p(y) = \{\forall z\, (R(z,a)\rightarrow R(z,y))\}\cup \{y\neq f^n(a)\mid n\geq 0\}.$$ Use the compactness theorem to realize this type in an elementary extension of $\mathfrak{M}$.
Are you saying that every infinite model of $T$ is $T$-ec? It's true that every $T$-ec structure satisfies $T_\infty$ (at least when $T$ has infinite models), but that doesn't mean the converse is true!
Hint: Suppose for contradiction that the class of $T$-ec models is elementary. Can you find a model $\mathfrak{M}$ which is $T$-ec and which contains an element $a$ such that $\{f^n(a)\mid n\geq 0\}$ is infinite? Then the model $\mathfrak{M}'$ from (2) is also $T$-ec (why?). Now do you see why (1) and (2) directly give you a contradiction?