If $(X,\mathcal{S},\mu)$ is a measure space, a set $A\in\mathcal{S}$ is called an atom of $\mu$ iff $0<\mu(A)<\infty$ and for every $C\subset A$ with $C\in\mathcal{S}$, either $\mu(C)=0$ or $\mu(C)=\mu(A)$.
For two atoms $A$ and $B$, define a relation $A\approx B$ iff $\mu(A\cap B)=\mu(A)$.
For $\mu$ finite, show that $\approx$ is an equivalence relation.
My efforts:
$A\approx A$ since $\mu(A\cap A)=\mu(A)$.
Suppose $A\approx B$. Since $A$ is an atom, $\mu(A)>0$. Since $A\approx B$, $\mu(A\cap B)=\mu(A)>0$. Since $B$ is an atom and $A\cap B\subset B$, either $\mu(A\cap B)=0$ or $\mu(A\cap B)=\mu(B)$. Since $\mu(A\cap B)>0$, we must have $\mu(A\cap B)=\mu(B)$. So $B\approx A$.
Suppose $A\approx B$ and $B\approx C$. We need to show $A\approx C$. Since $C$ is an atom and $A\cap C\subset C$, either $\mu(A\cap C)=0$ or $\mu(A\cap C)=\mu(C)$. We only need to show $\mu(A\cap C)>0$. Assume $\mu(A\cap C)=0$. Then $0<\mu(A)=\mu(A\cap C)+\mu(A\setminus C)=\mu(A\setminus C)$. Since $A\setminus C\subset A\setminus(B\cap C)$, we have $\mu(A\setminus C)\leq\mu(A\setminus (B\cap C))=\mu(A)-\mu(A\cap B\cap C)$.
Then I don't know how to proceed.
The idea is that $A\approx B$ iff the difference between $A$ and $B$ is negligible (in measure). We do just that: Suppose $A\approx B$ and $B\approx C$.
Notice that \begin{align*} A\setminus C &\subseteq ((A\setminus B)\cup B)\setminus C\\ &=\left[(A\setminus B)\setminus C\right]\cup \left[B\setminus C\right]\\ &\subseteq (A\setminus B)\cup (B\setminus C) \end{align*} so $\mu(A\setminus C)\leq\mu(A\setminus B)+\mu(B\setminus C)$.
Now we have the decomposition of $A$ as a disjoint union $A=(A\setminus B)\sqcup (A\cap B)$, so from $A\approx B$ we get $$\mu(A)=\mu(A\setminus B)+\mu(A\cap B)=\mu(A\setminus B)+\mu(A),$$ so $\mu(A\setminus B)=0$. Similarly, from $B\approx C$ you get $\mu(B\setminus C)=0$.
Then $$0\leq\mu(A\setminus C)\leq\mu(A\setminus B)+\mu(B\setminus C)=0$$ Therefore $\mu(A\setminus C)=0$. Now we decompose $A=(A\setminus C)\sqcup(A\cap C)$ to obtain $$\mu(A)=\mu(A\setminus C)+\mu(A\cap C)=0+\mu(A\cap C)=\mu(A\cap C),$$ which means that $A\approx C$.
So in the end, what I'm doing is using the following lemma (which follows by decomposing $A=(A\setminus B)\cup (A\cap B)$) a few times, which rewrites $\approx$ in terms of differences and makes some computations easier: