Let $G$ be a reductive group and $B$ a Borel subgroup. The Bruhat decomposition allows us to write (where $W$ is the Weyl group): $$ G/B = \coprod_{w\in W} BwB$$
Why is this form the same as looking at the $G$-orbit decomposition ($G$ acting diagonally): $$ (G/B)^2 = \coprod_{w\in W} G\cdot (eB,wB)$$
I believe this generalizes. If $P_1,...,P_n$ are parabolic subgroups, then looking at the orbits of the diagonal $G$ action on $G/P_1\times ... \times G/P_n$ is the same as the orbit structure of the $P_1$ action on $G/P_2 \times ... \times G/P_n$.
So, suppose $$G/B = \coprod_{w \in W} B w B.$$
Then, pick $(gB, hB) \in (G/B)^{2}.$ We can find $w$ such that $g^{-1}h \in BwB$. Say $g^{-1}hB = bwB$. Then, $b^{-1}g^{-1}h \in wB$ and hence, $$(gB, hB) = gb(eB, b^{-1}g^{-1}hB) = gb(eB, wB).$$
Hence, $(G/B)^{2} \subseteq \coprod_{w \in W} G\cdot (eB, wB)$, and the reverse inclusion is obvious.
Now, suppose $$(G/B)^{2} \subseteq \coprod_{w \in W} G \cdot (eB, wB).$$ Pick $gB \in G/B$. Then, for some $w \in W$, and $g \in G$, $$(eB, gB) = (g'B, g'wB)$$ and hence $g' \in B$ and hence $gB \in BwB.$ Hence, $G/B \subseteq \coprod_{w \in W} BwB$ and the reverse inclusion is trivial.