Let $Y$ be the irreducible curve of $\mathbb{A}^2$ given by $y^2 = x^2(x+1)$. Let $t,u$ be homogeneous coordinates of $\mathbb{P}^1$. Then the total inverse image of $Y$ under the blowing-up $\phi: X \rightarrow \mathbb{A}^n$ of $\mathbb{A}^n$ at the origin $O=(0,0)$ is a subset of $\mathbb{A}^2 \times \mathbb{P}^1$ and given by the equations $y^2 = x^2(x+1), x u = y t$. Note that by definition the blowing-up of $Y$ at $O$ is the closure of $\phi^{-1}(Y-O)$ and is denoted by $\tilde{Y}$.
Hartshorne, first considers the open set $t \neq 0$, sets $t=1$, treats $u$ as an affine parameter and arrives at the exceptional curve and the equations $y=ux, u^2=x+1$, and he states that the latter give precisely $\tilde{Y}$.
Question 1: Why do the equations $y=ux, u^2=x+1$ define $\tilde{Y}$?
My effort: Since $Y$ is irreducible, the set $Y-O$ is not closed and so $\phi^{-1}(Y-O)$ will not be closed. Now $\tilde{Y}$ is inside the total inverse image of $Y$, i.e. $\phi^{-1}(Y)$, and so any point in $\tilde{Y} - \phi^{-1}(Y-O)$ must be a point of $\phi^{-1}(O)$. Finally, note that $V(y-ux,u^2-x-1) = \phi^{-1}(Y-O) \cup \left\{(0,0,1),(0,0,-1)\right\}$. How can i complete the argument now?
Question 2: Accepting that $\tilde{Y}=\phi^{-1}(Y-O) \cup \left\{(0,0,1,1),(0,0,-1,1)\right\}$, Hartshorne states that the points of $\tilde{Y}$ that intersect $\phi^{-1}(O)$, i.e. points $(0,0,1),(0,0,-1)$, (assuming that $t=1$), give the slopes of the branches of $Y$ through the origin $O$. How can we see that? What is a general proof of this statement?
Question 3: By considering now the open set $u \neq 0$, we can set $u=1$ and the equations of $\phi^{-1}(Y)$ become $x = t y, y^2 = x^2(x+1)$ which give $y = 0$ and $1 = t^2(ty+1)$. What does the information given my these equations signify and why is Harsthorne now analyzing them?
I'd like to make some complement to Mohamed Hashi's answer.
Let $X$ be the blow-up of $\mathbb{A}^2$ at $O=(0,0)$,that is $$X=\{((x,y),(u:t))\in \mathbb{A}^2 \times \mathbb{P}^1\mid xu=yt\}.$$ Let $\mathbb{A}^1_u,\mathbb{A}^1_t$ be the affine cover of $\mathbb{P}^1$,then $$\mathbb{A}^2 \times \mathbb{P}^1=(\mathbb{A}^2 \times\mathbb{A}^1_u) \cup(\mathbb{A}^2 \times\mathbb{A}^1_t).$$ We have the following isomorphism: $$X_u=X\cap(\mathbb{A}^2 \times\mathbb{A}^1_u)\longrightarrow \mathbb{A}^2,$$ where $((x,y),(1:t))\longmapsto (y,t)\longmapsto ((yt,y),(1:t))$.Under this isomorphism,we may write $$\varphi^{-1}(Y)\cap X_u=\{(0,t))\in \mathbb{A}^2\mid t \in k\}\cup \{(y,t)\in \mathbb{A}^2\mid 1=t^2(yt+1)\},$$ $$\varphi^{-1}(Y-O)\cap X_u=\{(y,t)\in \mathbb{A}^2\mid 1=t^2(yt+1)\}- \{(0,\pm 1))\},$$ since $\overline{\varphi^{-1}(Y-O)}^X\cap X_u=\overline{\varphi^{-1}(Y-O)\cap X_u}^{X_u}$ is closed in $ X_u\cong\mathbb{A}^2$,we have $$\overline{\varphi^{-1}(Y-O)}^X\cap X_u=\{(y,t)\in \mathbb{A}^2\mid 1=t^2(yt+1)\},$$ hence $\tilde{Y}_u=\tilde{Y}\cap(\mathbb{A}^2 \times\mathbb{A}^1_u)=\{(y,t)\in \mathbb{A}^2\mid 1=t^2(yt+1)\}.$
Similarly,under the isomorphism $X_t=X\cap(\mathbb{A}^2 \times\mathbb{A}^1_t)\cong\mathbb{A}^2$,we get $$\tilde{Y}_t=\tilde{Y}\cap(\mathbb{A}^2 \times\mathbb{A}^1_t)=\{(x,u)\in \mathbb{A}^2\mid u^2=x+1)\}.$$ Now come back to our question.
Question 1:why $\tilde{Y}=\tilde{Y}\cap(\mathbb{A}^2 \times\mathbb{A}^1_t)$?
Note that $\mathbb{A}^2 \times \mathbb{P}^1=(\mathbb{A}^2 \times\mathbb{A}^1_t) \cup\{((x,y),(1:0))\in \mathbb{A}^2 \times \mathbb{P}^1\},$ so \begin{equation} \begin{split} \tilde{Y}&=\tilde{Y}_t\cup (\tilde{Y}\cap\{((x,y),(1:0))\in \mathbb{A}^2 \times \mathbb{P}^1\})\\ &=\tilde{Y}_t\cup (\tilde{Y}\cap\{((x,y),(1:0))\in \mathbb{A}^2 \times \mathbb{P}^1\cap X\})\\ &=\tilde{Y}_t\cup (\tilde{Y}_u\cap\{((0,y),(1:0))\in X_u\}). \end{split} \end{equation} But under our isomorphism $X\cap(\mathbb{A}^2 \times\mathbb{A}^1_u)\cong\mathbb{A}^2$,we know that $$\{((0,y),(1:0))\in X_u\}=\{(y,0)\in \mathbb{A}^2\mid y\in k\},$$and $$\tilde{Y}_u=\{(y,t)\in \mathbb{A}^2\mid 1=t^2(yt+1)\}.$$ Therefore $\tilde{Y}_u\cap\{((0,y),(1:0))\in X_u\}=\emptyset$,we conclude that $\tilde{Y}=\tilde{Y}_t$.
Question 3:what about $\tilde{Y}_u$?
In fact,we have $\tilde{Y}=\tilde{Y}_u \cup \{((-1,0),(0:1))\in \tilde{Y}_t\}$.
Question 2: Pionts of $\varphi^{-1}(O)$ are in 1-1 correspondence with the set of lines through $O$ in $\mathbb{A}^2$,points $((0,0),(0,\pm 1))$ correspond to lines $y=\pm x$ whose slope are $\pm 1$.Note that lines $y=\pm x$ are the tangent of the two branches of $Y$ at $O$.
Added:there is a more direct approach concerning question 1.In the same way,we may look at the following isomorphism:$$X_u\longrightarrow Z(x-yt)\subset\mathbb{A}^3,$$ where $((x,y),(1:t))\longmapsto (x,y,t)\longmapsto ((yt,y),(1:t))$.Under this isomorphism,we may write \begin{equation} \begin{split} \varphi^{-1}(Y)\cap X_u&=Z(y^2-x^3-x^2,x-yt)\subset \mathbb{A}^3,\\ \varphi^{-1}(Y-O)\cap X_u&=Z(1-t^2-yt^3,x-yt)-(0,0,\pm 1)\subset\mathbb{A}^3,\\ \overline{\varphi^{-1}(Y-O)}^X\cap X_u &=\overline{\varphi^{-1}(Y-O)\cap X_u}^{X_u}=Z(1-t^2-yt^3,x-yt), \end{split} \end{equation} hence we have $\tilde{Y}_u=\tilde{Y}\cap(\mathbb{A}^2 \times\mathbb{A}^1_u)=Z(1-t^2-yt^3,x-yt)$.
Similarly,$\tilde{Y}_t=\tilde{Y}\cap(\mathbb{A}^2 \times\mathbb{A}^1_t)=Z(1+x-u^2,xu-y)$. And since \begin{equation} \begin{split} \tilde{Y}\cap\{((x,y),(1:0))\in \mathbb{A}^2 \times \mathbb{P}^1\} &=\tilde{Y}\cap\{((x,y),(1:0))\in \mathbb{A}^2 \times \mathbb{P}^1\}\cap X_u\\ &=\tilde{Y}_u\cap\{((0,y),(1:0))\in X_u\}\\ &=\tilde{Y}_u\cap\{((0,y,0)\in \mathbb{A}^3\}\\ &=\emptyset. \end{split} \end{equation} Illustration: 1.The first equality holds because$\tilde{Y}\cap\{((x,y),(1:0))\in \mathbb{A}^2 \times \mathbb{P}^1\}$ is in fact a subset of $X_u$.
2.The second equality holds because in $X_u$,we have $u=1$ and $x=yt$.
3.In the third equality,we used the isomorphism $X_u\cong Z(x-yt)$.
3.The last equality holds because $\tilde{Y}_u=Z(1-t^2-yt^3,x-yt)$,and $$Z(1-t^2-yt^3,x-yt)\cap\{((0,y,0)\in \mathbb{A}^3\}=\emptyset.$$
Finally,we see that $\tilde{Y}=\tilde{Y}_t\cup(\tilde{Y}\cap\{((x,y),(1:0))\in \mathbb{A}^2 \times \mathbb{P}^1\})=\tilde{Y}_t\cup \emptyset=\tilde{Y}_t$.
Edit3:In this example,points in $\tilde{Y} \cap \varphi^{-1}(O)$ correspond to tangent of the two branches of $Y$ at $O$,we will see that this is true for any curves in $\mathbb{A}^2$.
Let $Y=Z(f)$ be a curve in $\mathbb{A}^2$,where $f(x,y)=f_r+\cdots+f_d$ and $f_i$ are homogeneous polynomials in $x,y, ~\forall r\leq i\leq d$.We will assume that $r\geq 2$ so that $O=(0,0)$ is a singular point of $Y$.As usual,since $X_u\cong\mathbb{A}^2$,we may write \begin{equation} \begin{split} \varphi^{-1}(Y)\cap X_u&=\{(0,t))\in \mathbb{A}^2\mid t \in k\}\cup \{(y,t)\in \mathbb{A}^2\mid \frac{f(yt,y)}{y^r}=0\},\\ \varphi^{-1}(Y-O)\cap X_u&= \{(y,t)\in \mathbb{A}^2\mid \frac{f(yt,y)}{y^r}=0\}-\{(0,t)\in \mathbb{A}^2\mid f_r(t,1)=0\},\\ \tilde{Y}_u=\overline{\varphi^{-1}(Y-O)}^X\cap X_u &=\{(y,t)\in \mathbb{A}^2\mid \frac{f(yt,y)}{y^r}=0\}\\ \tilde{Y}_u \cap \varphi^{-1}(O) &=\{(0,t)\in \mathbb{A}^2\mid f_r(t,1)=0\} \end{split} \end{equation} Similarly,we have $$\tilde{Y}_t \cap \varphi^{-1}(O) =\{(0,u)\in \mathbb{A}^2\mid f_r(1,u)=0\}.$$ Next we glue $\tilde{Y}_u \cap \varphi^{-1}(O)$ and $\tilde{Y}_t \cap \varphi^{-1}(O)$ to see that$$\tilde{Y} \cap \varphi^{-1}(O)\cong D=\{(x:y)\in \mathbb{P}^1\mid f_r(x,y)=0\}.$$In waht follows,we let $D_1=\{(1:y)\in \mathbb{P}^1\mid f_r(1,y)=0\}$, $D_2=\{(x:1)\in \mathbb{P}^1\mid f_r(x,1)=0\}$.The glueing is carried out by the following isomorphism: $$\tilde{Y}_u \cap \varphi^{-1}(O)\cong D_2:(0,t)\mapsto (t:1),$$ $$\tilde{Y}_t \cap \varphi^{-1}(O)\cong D_1:(0,u)\mapsto (1:u).$$ Now we see that $\tilde{Y} \cap \varphi^{-1}(O)\cong D=\{(x:y)\in \mathbb{P}^1\mid f_r(x,y)=0\},$which is a finite set.Further more,we note that $f_r(x,y)$ is a homogeneous polynomial of degree $r$ in $k[x,y]$ and $k$ is algebraically closed,so $f_r(x,y)$ can be factored into linear terms:$$f_r(x,y)=(a_1x-b_1y)\cdots(a_rx-b_ry).$$ It follows that $$\tilde{Y} \cap \varphi^{-1}(O)=\{(b_1:a_1),...,(b_r:a_r)\}. $$ So we can say that points $(b_i:a_i)$ in $\tilde{Y} \cap \varphi^{-1}(O)$ corresponde to the so called tangent directions $a_ix-b_iy$.But we know that tangent directions are exactly the tangents of branchs of $Y$ through $O$.
We conclude that points in $\tilde{Y} \cap \varphi^{-1}(O)$ corresponde to the tangents of branchs of Y through $O$.