I want to determine if the following function is differentiable for $x \in [0,\infty)$
$$F(x) = \sum_{j=0}^\infty \frac{e^{-jx}}{j^2 +1}$$
The series is uniformly convergent on $[0,\infty$) by the M-test since $\displaystyle \left|\frac{e^{-jx}}{j^2 +1} \right| < \frac{1}{j^2}$ and the series of termwise derivatives has uniform convergence on any interval $[\alpha,\infty)$ since $\displaystyle \left|\frac{je^{-jx}}{j^2 +1}\right|< \frac{e^{-\alpha j}}{j^2}.$ This proves that $F$ is differentiable for any point $x \in (0,\infty)$.
I know that the series of termwise derivatives does not converge for $x = 0$, so the derivative $F'(0)$ may not exist, but I would like to know how to show this directly. There are examples where a derivative of a series may exist even though it can't be obtained by termwise differentiation.

We write the difference quotient
$$\frac{F(h)-F(0)}{h} = \frac{1}{h}\left(\sum_{j=0}^{\infty}\frac{e^{-jh}-1}{j^2+1}\right)$$
where $h>0$. Notice that $e^{-jh}-1\leq 0$ for every $j$ and therefore
$$\frac{F(h)-F(0)}{h}\leq \frac{1}{h}\left(\sum_{j=0}^{N}\frac{e^{-jh}-1}{j^2+1}\right).$$
Then
$$\limsup_{h\rightarrow0^+}\frac{F(h)-F(0)}{h}\leq \sum_{j=0}^{N}\left(\lim_{h\rightarrow 0^+}\frac{e^{-jh}-1}{h}\right)\frac{1}{j^2+1} = \sum_{j=0}^{N}\frac{-j}{j^2+1} = -\sum_{j=0}^{N}\frac{j}{j^2+1}.$$
Since the right-hand side tends to $-\infty$ as $N\rightarrow \infty$ we can conclude that the limit does not exist.