As you can see from the title, I am trying to find all integer solutions $(a,b,c)$ to $$(a+b+c) \ \lvert\ (ab+bc+ca) \ \lvert\ abc$$ (that is, $a+b+c$ divides $ab+bc+ca$, and $ab+bc+ca$ divides $abc$). Unfortunately, I could not find anything on this problem (although I find it hard to believe that nobody though of this before).
What I've found so far
I have looked at the simpler case: $(a+b) \ \lvert\ ab$. I was able to solve this, and all solutions are $$(a,b)=(\alpha(\alpha+\beta)\gamma,\beta(\alpha+\beta)\gamma)$$ with $\alpha,\beta,\gamma\in\mathbb{Z}$.
I was also able to reduce the given problem to only one division. If we are able to solve $$(a_0b_0+b_0c_0+c_0a_0) \ \lvert\ (a_0+b_0+c_0)a_0b_0c_0 $$ with $\gcd(a_0,b_0,c_0)=1$, then we know that \begin{align} a&=a_0(a_0+b_0+c_0)\cdot k\\ b&=b_0(a_0+b_0+c_0)\cdot k\\ c&=c_0(a_0+b_0+c_0)\cdot k\\ \end{align} For $k\in\mathbb{Z}$ are all solutions to the original problem. However, I was not able to solve this. I have computed a few solutions to the last (and the corresponding solutions for the original problem) but was not able to find a pattern. Any progress on the problem is welcome!
Your original 2-variable problem can be written as "find all polynomials of the form $x^2+u x +uv$ with all integer zeroes". The conditions on what $u$ and $v$ must be come from the requirement that the zeroes are integers -- in this case, $-u \pm \sqrt{u^2-4uv}\in 2\mathbb{Z}$. This is satisfied when $u^2-4uv$ is a perfect square. In your case, $u=(\alpha+\beta)^2\gamma$ and $v=\alpha\beta\gamma$ satisfy this condition.
Your full problem can likewise be reduced to "find all polynomials of the form $x^3+ux^2+uvx+uvw$ with all integer zeroes". I'm not sure this is closer to a solution, but it somehow seems a better posed problem.
It seems to me that it should also be reducible to matrix algebra, but I don't quite see how.