Suppose V is a vector space over $\Bbb C$ (without an inner product), and that $T \in \mathcal L (V )$ is diagonalizable.
Prove that there exists an inner product $\langle ·, · \rangle $ on V such that, with respect to this inner product, T is normal.
My original thought is well we have $T= U D U^{-1} $ so we have $TT^{*}= U D U^{-1} (U D U^{-1})^* = U D U^{-1}(U^{-1})^* D^* U^*$ Where U is an change of basis. if we could prove that $U^* = U^{-1}$ when U is a change of basis matrix then we know that two diagonal matrices commute. then we would have $U D^* D U^*= (U^{-1})^* D^* U^* U D U^{-1} = T^{*}T$ as desired.
Is there some easy way of doing so or a diffrent way to approach the problem? ( we havent technically covered unitary matrices yet)
When you write $T=UDU^{-1}$, you get into unnecessary complications. $T$ is not a matrix, it is a linear transformation. If you want to think of it as a matrix, you get to choose the basis, in which case you can directly choose the right one and the matrix of $T$ is diagonal. $M_T=D$.
All that is left to do is explain why for any basis, there is an inner product that makes that basis orthonormal. This is relatively straightforward.