
Alright so I am running out of ideas about how to approach this problem, I tried setting $(1,-1,3,5)$ to $w$ and solving for $a$ and $b$ algebraically but just ended up with
$a = (w-bv)/u$
and
$b = (w-au)/v$
i tried solving for $a$ and $b$ algebraically by plugging the second equation into the first but just ended up getting $a = a$ ... and this is a problem from the first section so I havent learned anything after 3.1 in this picture below: so I have no idea what I am even supposed to do to get a numerical scale value for a and b as in the back of the book...

Try going to the simplest way, Just treat it like a system of ecuations do something like this
$$a\vec{u} +b\vec{v}=(1, -4, 9, 18)$$ $$a(1, -1, 3 ,5)+b(2, 1, 0, -3)=(1, -4, 9, 18)$$ Now using the fact that if $\vec{x}=(x_{1}, x_{2})$ and $\vec{y}=(y_{1}, y_{2})$ then $\vec{x}+\vec{y}=(x_{1}+y_{1},x_{2}+y_{2})$ $$(a, -a, 3a, 5a)+(2b, b, 0, -3b)=(1, -4, 9, 18)$$ $$(a +2b, -a+b, 3a, 5a-3b)=(1, -4, 9, 18)$$ Resulting an easy-solving equation system $$a+2b=1$$ $$-a+b=-4$$ $$3a=9$$ $$5a-3b=18$$