Find the equations of both of the tangent lines to the ellipse $x^2+4y^2=36$ that pass through the point $(12,3)$.
Finding Slope
The derivative of $x^2 + 4y^2 = 36$ is $y'= -\dfrac{x}{4y}$.
Finding arbitrary point where tangent line is at
If I arrange the equation $x^2 + 4y^2 = 36$, $$y= \pm\frac{\sqrt{x^2+36}}{2}$$
Let $(k, \pm\frac{\sqrt{k^2+36}}{2})$ be the point where tangent line is at. Thus the tangent line slope at that point is $$-\frac{k}{4\left(\pm\frac{\sqrt{k^2+36}}{2}\right)}$$
Equation of tangent line is
$y-y_0 = m (x-x_0)$
Let $(k, \pm\frac{\sqrt{k^2+36}}{2})$ be $(x_0, y_0)$. Let $(12,3)$ be $(x,y)$
$$12-k = -\frac{k}{4\left(\pm\frac{\sqrt{k^2+36}}{2}\right)}\left(3- \pm \frac{\sqrt{k^2+36}}{2}\right)$$
And I'm stuck here. It gets really confusing?
The equation of a line that pass through the point $(12,3)$ is $(y-3)=m(x-12)$. So the system: $$ \begin{cases} (y-3)=m(x-12)\\ x^2+4y^2=36 \end{cases} $$
represents the common points of the line and the ellipse and the line is a tangent iff this system has only one solution .
Solving the first equation for $y$ and substituting in the second equation we find a second degree equation in $x$ that contains the parameter $m$
$$ P)^{(2)}(x,m)=0 $$ take the discriminat of this equation that is a second degree polynomial in $m$ : $\Delta(m)$.
Solving the equation $\Delta(m)=0$ you find the values of $m$ such that the system has only one solution , i.e. the slopes of the two ( if the point is external to the ellipse) tangent lines .
Note that this method does not use the derivative (but the fact that the equation of a conic section is second degree) and is, in general, simpler.