Find the parametric eq of the line through points $(1,3, -4)$ and $(3,2,1)$.
Constructing a vector, we get, $[3-1, 2-3, 1+4] = [2, -1, 5]$ (point on line)
Let $r$ represent a point on the line $l$.
Then,
$r = [2, -1, 5] + t[1,3,-4]$
or
$r = [2, -1, 5] + t[3,2,1]$
Which can I choose as my parallel vector in this case?
Given two points $(x_0, y_0, z_0)$ and $(x_1, y_1, z_1)$, you can find a vector that specifies the line's direction, namely $\mathbf{d} = \left<x_1 - x_0, y_1 - y_0, z_1 - z_0 \right> = \left<a, b, c\right>$. Then, choose a point on the line (for which $(x_0, y_0, z_0)$ and $(x_1, y_1, z_1)$ are intuitive choices) -- call this point $P = (x', y', z')$ and construct the parametric equations as:
$\begin{cases}x(t) = x' + at \\ y(t) = y' + bt \\ z(t) = z' + ct \end{cases}$
For some parameter $t$.
$\mathbf{d} = \left<2, -1, 5 \right>$
Since this line goes through $(1, 3, -4)$, choose that as your point.
Your equations are:
$\begin{cases}x(t) = 1 + 2t \\ y(t) = 3 - t \\ z(t) = 5t - 4 \end{cases}$