I need to find a and b that would make the hyperbola $\frac{x^2}{a^2}-\frac{y^2}{b^2}=1$ congruent to the rectangular hyperbola $xy=1$.
I know that the answer is $a=b=\sqrt{2}$, and I've found some answers that prove it (using polar coordinates), however, I haven't found anything on the process of how to actually find a and b. Furthermore, we haven't gone over polar coordinates yet so I need an answer that doesn't involve that.
I've been searching for over an hour both on here and other websites and I can't seem to find what I'm looking for.

You should know that a hyperbola $H_1$ with equation $xy=1$ has the coordinate axes as asymptotes. Hence its asymptotes are perpendicular.
A hyperbola $H_2$ with equation ${x^2\over a^2}-{y^2\over b^2}=1$ has two asymptotes with slopes $\pm{b\over a}$. They are perpendicular only if $a=b$.
To find the value of $a$, take for instance a vertex $V_1=(1,1)$ in $H_1$: its coordinates are the distances of $V$ from the asymptotes. The corresponding point in $H_2$ is $V_2=(a,0)$ and its distances from the asymptotes (which are lines $y=\pm x$) are both $a/\sqrt2$. A comparison with $V_1$ gives $a/\sqrt2=1$, i.e. $a=\sqrt2$.