Let $R$ be a ring and let $L$ be a left ideal of $R$. The left ideal $L$ is said to be essential if $L \cap S \neq \lbrace 0 \rbrace$, for any non-zero left ideal $S$ of $R$.
Now let $L$ be a random left ideal of $R$. I have to show that there exists a left ideal $L'$ of $R$ such that $L \cap L' =\lbrace 0 \rbrace$ and $L \oplus L'$ is an essential ideal of $R$.
Any tips?
You're basically right on top of the answer. You've already chosen $L'$ to be maximal (in your comment). If $L\oplus L'\cap S=\{0\}$, then $L\oplus L'\oplus S$ is direct as well.
So $L'\oplus S\in P$, not merely $S$.
Now do you see the contradiction?