In this post: Examples of rings with ideal lattice isomorphic to $M_3$, $N_5$ a nice example was given of a non-distributive ring. The lattice of ideals turned out to be the Diamond lattice $M_3$ with the biggest ideal $R$ appended above the top of the Diamond.
Question: Is there a similar example whose lattice ideal looks like the same lattice upside-down? (That is, $R$ would now be in the Diamond, and the $\{0\}$ ideal would be the only ideal outside of the Diamond.)
Edit: I had not intended for anyone to assume commutativity, but I had forgotten I put that in the tags aways back. Jack Schmidt's answer below reminds us why there is no example in the commutative case.
Edit 2: As I was reading Jack Schmidt's second answer below, I realized that $R=M_2(\mathbb{F_2})$ is already a very good example, since both the lattices of right and of left ideals are already precisely the Diamond!
In order to keep going with the original question though, I wanted to bring up the following strategy. By taking an $R-R$ bimodule $B$ and forming the triangular ring $\begin{pmatrix}R&B\\0&R\end{pmatrix}$, and taking the subring $T=\{ \begin{pmatrix}x&y\\0&x\end{pmatrix}\mid x\in R, y\in B\}$, then one has obtained a ring $T$ with $rad(T)=\begin{pmatrix}0&B\\0&0\end{pmatrix}$ such that $T /rad(T)\cong R$. We would understand the structure above $rad(T)$, and the rest of the ideal structure would be determined within $B$. If $B$ could be simple as a right module, then we would be done, but my gut says this is impossible.
If anyone can explain in the comments, I would be grateful. Usually when I ask anything about a bimodule, the answer is "No, because (simple reason)." Followed by: "This is, of course, the 0-th Hochschild cohomology."
Here are a few thoughts on the non-commutative, one-sided ideal case: Drop the assumption that R is commutative, and ask for the poset of nonzero left ideals to be M3.
The left ideals are the maximal left ideals m1, m2, m3 and their intersection, n. n is the nilradical and R/n is semisimple with three maximal left ideals. R/n is a direct product of matrix rings over division rings. The maximal left ideals of a matrix ring over a division ring are in 1-1 correspondence with the maximal submodules of the natural module. In particular, if the division ring is infinite, there are infinitely many maximal submodules. If the division ring has q elements and the matrix ring is degree n, then there are $(q^n-1)/(q-1)$ maximal submodules. Solving $(q^n-1)/(q-1)=3$ gives $q=n=2$.
The direct product of rings has left ideals precisely the direct products of left ideals of the factors, and so R/n is in fact a simple ring (R/n, m1/n, m2/n, m3/n, n/n is again not a "product" of lattices).
In particular, R is an algebra over a field of characteristic 2 with a 2-dimensional simple module (its only simple module up to iso).