Let $A$ be a set and $F\subset \mathcal P(A)$, and for any $a\in A$, let's define $F_a:= \left\{X\in F, a\in X\right\}$
Suppose that :
$F$ is not a finite union of chains
for any $E\subset F$, $\bigcap E\in F$
Does there necessarilly exists $a\in A$ such that for any $a\in A$, $card(F_a)\leq card(F-F_a)$
Let $(F_n,<_n)_{n\in \mathbb N}$ be a sequence of disjoint finite lattices .
We consider the lattice $(\bigcup F_i,<<)$ where we keep the original computation on each $F_i$ (for any interger $i$, and any $x<_iy$ we say $x<<y$) and such that for any $i<j$ and any $(x_i,x_j)\in F_i\times F_j$, $x_i<<x_j$
For any element $x$ of the lattice, we considere $M(x):=\left\{y\in \bigcup F_i, y<<x\right\}$
Then $\left\{M(x), x\in \bigcup F_i\right\}$ does the job as soon as $i\mapsto |F_i|$ is unbounded and well chosen (for example one can take for the $F_n$ distributive lattices that cardinality increase with $n$).