Can some give an easy general method to find general term of sequences whose difference is in AP? Example: 1,4,8,13,19....
The difference is 3,4,5... which is in AP.
Through vigorous testing and analysis you get the general term as $ (n^2 + 3n - 2)/2$ but how to derive it mathematically
Let us first closely examine the sequence: $1,4,8,13,19,\dots$ \begin{align*} u_1&=1\\ u_2&=1+3=4\\ u_3&=1+(3+4)=8\\ u_4&=1+(3+4+5)=13\\ \vdots \end{align*} Notice that essentially to get the term $u_n$ in our sequence, we need to add the sum of the first $n-1$ terms in the difference sequence ($3,4,5,6,\dots$) to the first term $u_1=1$. So, to find the general expression for $u_n$, we first need find the general expression for the sum of the first $n-1$ terms in the difference sequence.
We have $a_1=3$ and $d=1$, meaning $a_n=a_1+d(n-1)=3+1\cdot(n-1)=n+2$. So, if $$S_{n}=\frac{a_1+a_n}{2}\cdot n=\frac{n(3+n+2)}{2}=\frac{n(n+5)}{2}$$ Then $$S_{n-1}=\frac{(n-1)(n-1+5)}{2}=\frac{(n-1)(n+4)}{2}$$ Now, we have the first term of the original sequence $u_1=1$, we know the difference expression that is added to the first term to get the $n$th term, so let us put it all together in a general expression for $u_n$! \begin{align*} u_n&=u_1+S_{n-1}\\ &=1+\frac{(n-1)(n+4)}{2}\\ &=\frac{2+n^2+4n-n-4}{2}\\ &=\frac{n^2+3n-2}{2} \end{align*} This is exactly what you have obtained by testing.
Returning to your question, the same steps can be taken for a general sequence, if its difference is in arithmetic progression. Namely, you find the first term of the original sequence, then the general expression for the sum of the first $n-1$ terms for the difference sequence, and put it together. If you want an exercise, try to work out the expression for the term $u_n$ for a general sequence.
Hope this helps and please feel free to ask any further questions, if anything is a bit unclear! :)