I know that a linear transformation could be a projection onto the plane with normal vector $\begin{bmatrix} -1 & 1 & 2\end{bmatrix}^T$, but finding the projection would be too difficult.
I could easily think up a matrix where multiplied by $\begin{bmatrix} -1 & 1 & 2\end{bmatrix}^T = 0$, but I'm not sure on how to choose a matrix where $\begin{bmatrix} -1 & 1 & 2\end{bmatrix}^T$ is the only element of the kernel.
Also, can you please explain this Hint: "to describe a subset as a kernel means to describe it as an intersection of planes?"
Guide:
$$0(01) + (-2)(1)+1(2)=0$$
Verify that $\begin{bmatrix} 2 & 0 & 1 \end{bmatrix}$ and $\begin{bmatrix} 0 & -2 & 1 \end{bmatrix}$ are linearly independent.
Now think of someway to form your matrix and prove that span of $\{\begin{bmatrix} -1 & 1 & 2 \end{bmatrix}^T\}$ is a basis to the kernel.
As for the explanation of the hint: To describe $x$ which satisfy $Ax=0$ where $a_i^T$ are the $i$-th row means $x$ is in the intersection of $\{ a_i^Tx = 0 : i \in \{ 1, \ldots, m\}\}$.