Let $A = \left \{ 1,2,3,4 \right \}$. Give an example of $R$ over $A$ so that it is symmetric and transitive but not reflexive.
My answer: $R = \begin{Bmatrix} (2,1)(1,2)(2,3)(1,3) \end{Bmatrix}$
Correct answer: $R = \begin{Bmatrix} (1,1)(2,2)(3,3) \end{Bmatrix}$
Question: Is my answer right? How is the ”correct” answer both transitive and symmetric?
Your answer is not correct because it is not symmetric: $(1,3)$ is in $S$ but $(3,1)$ isn’t. The correct answer is symmetric $(a,b)\in S$ means $(b,a)\in S$ is trivially true, and transitive by the same triviality. You’re correct in saying that this question has many, many different solutions, however.