Sorry if the title if confusing.
Essentially I have a vertex and a vector (the normal of a plane which the vertex sits on), and would like to be able to calculate the 'angle' along the plane of any other point in 3d space (which may not sit on the plane). I'd have two other points on the plane which could serve as the zero degrees point if need be, but the point being ultimately compared would almost certainly not be on the plane.
As an example: https://i.stack.imgur.com/4JhWe.png
My context is that I have a 3-cornered polygon (a rendering triangle face), and am looking for a cheap way to see whether another given 3d point lies within the 'infinite normal extrusion' of the bounded section of the plane. It also helps to know which edge the point is closest to if it falls outside of the polygon's infinite normal extrusion, hence why calculating an angle seems best.
As an example: https://i.stack.imgur.com/2v7hP.png
This doesn't directly answer your question, but it might solve your problem.
As you say, you are trying to find out whether a given point $P$ lies in the extruded volume formed by sweeping a triangle $ABC$. The first thing I would do is find the equations of the three planes defining this extruded shape. Then, for each of the three planes, check on which side the point $P$ lies. The point $P$ will be inside the volume if it's on the "inside" side of each of the three planes.
Specifically, consider the plane defined by the triangle side $AB$. Its equation is $(X - A) \cdot N = 0$, where $N$ is a vector lying in the plane of $ABC$ that is normal to the side $AB$. The dot denotes a vector dot product (sometimes called a scalar product). You determine inside vs. outside simply by checking whether $(X - A) \cdot N < 0$ or $(X - A) \cdot N > 0$.
Alternatively, project the point $P$ onto the plane of $ABC$, and use well-known tests to determine whether the projected point lies inside the triangle.
I'm not convinced that computing angles is a good approach. Using trig functions will certainly have a nasty impact on performance (if that's a concern).