Let $G$ be a group and $H$ subgroup of $G$, $N(H):=\{g\in G; gHg^{-1}=H\}$
$N(H)$ is also subgroup of $G$.
I need to prove that $H$ is a normal subrgoup in $N(H)$
Attempt:
$H\lhd N(H) \iff nhn^{-1}\in N(H)$ for all $n\in N(H),h\in H$
Let $z\in N(H),h\in H,g\in G$
$zhz^{-1}\in ? H $
$\iff (gHg^{-1})h(gHg^{-1})^{-1} \in H$
Is it true? how can I continue?
Take $z\in N(H)$ and $h\in H$ (there is no need to take a $g\in G$), what you want to do is to show that $zhz^{-1}\in H$. Remark that $zhz^{-1}\in zHz^{-1}$ (by definition of the conjugation) now use the fact that $z\in N(H)$ to conclude that $zhz^{-1}$ is actually in $H$ and you are done (I think you have everything right except the fact that you take some $g\in G$ that you don't need to take and that blurs your attempt).