I got the problem into this form:
$A+B=0$
$C-B=1$
$8A+4B-C+D=10 $
$-4B+4C-D+E=3$
$16A-4C-E=36$
I really don't know what to do after that. I suck at equating coefficients. It never makes sense to me. Please help and provide steps and a good explanation. Thank you.
$$A+B=0\tag{1}$$ $$C-B=1\tag{2}$$ $$8A+4B-C+D=10\tag{3}$$ $$-4B+4C-D+E=3\tag{4}$$ $$16A-4C-E=36\tag{5}$$
It is best to solve these types of problems by getting all of the variables in terms of one variable. In this case we choose $B$ because it looks like it will be easier.
From $(1)$, we get that $A=-B$.
From $(2),$ we get that $C=1+B$
Plugging this into $(3):$
$8(-B)+4B-(1+B)+D=10\implies-5B+D=11\implies D=11+5B$
Plugging this into $(4):$
$-4B+4(1+B)-(11+5B)+E=3\implies-5B+E=10\implies E=10+5B$
Plugging this into $(5):$
$16(-B)-4(1+B)-(10+5B)=36\implies-25B=50\implies B=-2$
Then we can calculate all the other variables which are in terms of $B$:
$A=2,\quad C=-1,\quad D=11-10=1,\quad E=10-10=0$
You can plug the variables back in to any of the equations to check that the answer is correct.