Let $$\textbf M=\begin{bmatrix}a & h & g \\ h & b & f \\ g & f & c\end{bmatrix} \qquad \textbf r=\begin{bmatrix}x \\ y \\ 1\end{bmatrix}\qquad \textbf{r}_k=\begin{bmatrix}x_k \\ y_k \\ 1\end{bmatrix}\qquad \mathrm d\textbf{r}=\begin{bmatrix}\mathrm dx \\ \mathrm dy \\ 0\end{bmatrix}$$ Then equation of conic is $\mathrm S \equiv\textbf{r}^{\mathrm T}\textbf{Mr}=0$
Firstly, $\ \vec{\textbf a}^{\ \mathrm T}\textbf{M}\vec{\textbf b}=\vec{\textbf b}^{\ \mathrm T}\textbf{M}\vec{\textbf a}$
Next, $\mathrm {dS}=2\textbf{r}^{\mathrm T}\textbf{M}\mathrm d\textbf r$
Equation of tangent at $\textbf r_1$ is $\textbf{r}_1^{\mathrm T}\textbf{M}\textbf r=0$
Equation of Chord of contact from $\textbf r_0$ is $\textbf{r}_0^{\mathrm T}\textbf{M}\textbf r=0$
My attempts for proving $\mathrm{T^2=SS_0}$ is the pair of tangents.
The pair of tangents is $(\textbf{r}_1^{\mathrm T}\textbf{M}\textbf r)(\textbf{r}_2^{\mathrm T}\textbf{M}\textbf r)=0$
- Sub Goal: to find a relation among $\textbf{r}_0$,$\textbf{r}_1$ and $\textbf{r}_2$
The equation $(\textbf{r}_0^{\mathrm T}\textbf{M}\textbf r)^2-(\textbf{r}^{\mathrm T}\textbf{Mr})(\textbf{r}_0^{\mathrm T}\textbf{M}\textbf{r}_0)$ passes through $\textbf{r}_0$,$\textbf{r}_1$ and $\textbf{r}_2$. Thus if it is a degenerate hyperbola, then we are done.
- Sub Goal: $\det(\textbf{M}\textbf{r}_0\textbf{r}_0^{\mathrm T}\textbf{M}-(\textbf{r}_0^{\mathrm T}\textbf{M}\textbf{r}_0)\textbf{M})=0$
Assuming pair of tangents can be written as $\mathrm{T^2-\lambda S - \mu T}=0$. Now equating slopes at 1 and 2 reveals $\mu =0$ and and since it passes through 0, we get $\lambda=\mathrm S_0$
- Sub Goal: proving the assumption.

I will use another formulation so I apologize beforehand.
Considering
$$ M =\left( \begin{array}{cc} a & b\\ b & c \end{array} \right), p = \left( \begin{array}{c} x\\ y\end{array} \right), p_0 = \left( \begin{array}{c} x_0\\ y_0\end{array} \right), p_1 = \left( \begin{array}{c} x_1\\ y_1\end{array} \right), \vec v = \left( \begin{array}{c} v_x\\ v_y\end{array} \right) $$
we have the conic $C$ and the line $L$
$$ \left\{ \begin{array}{rcl} C & \rightarrow & (p_1-p_0)\cdot M \cdot(p_1-p_0) = c_0\\ L & \rightarrow & p = p_1 + \lambda \vec v\\ \end{array} \right. $$
Now in $C \circ L = (p_1-p_0+\lambda \vec v) \cdot M\cdot (p_1-p_0+\lambda \vec v) = c_0$ tangency implies on
$$ \lambda^2\vec v \cdot M\cdot v +2\lambda (p_1-p_0)\cdot M\cdot \vec v +(p_1-p_0)\cdot M\cdot (p_1-p_0) = c_0 $$
$$ \Delta = (2(p_1-p_0)\cdot M\cdot \vec v))^2-4 (\vec v\cdot M\cdot\vec v)((p_1-p_0)\cdot M\cdot(p_1-p_0)-c_0) = 0 $$
From
$$ \lambda = \displaystyle{\frac{-2(p_1-p_0)\cdot M\cdot\vec v \pm \sqrt{\Delta}}{2\vec v\cdot M\cdot \vec v}} $$
Now simplifying $\Delta$ we get at the tangency condition in terms of $\vec v$
$$ \vec v\cdot(c_0 M-\det(M)(p_1-p_0)\cdot N \cdot (p_1-p_0))\cdot \vec v = 0 $$
with $N = \left(\begin{array}{c,c}1& -1 \\-1&1\\\end{array}\right)$ and $\sqrt{v_x^2+v_y^2} = 1$
hence giving $C$ and $p_1$ we can choose $\vec v$ for tangency.