How can we say we cannot compare between pairs (no completeness) and yet we can have transitivity?
Let's assume the relation is a preference relation.
For instance if my set has: $(a, b, c)$ How can I say that a is preferred to b, b is preferred to c and hence a is preferred to c (transitivity) if the relation is not complete and thus I cannot compare a to b and b to c?
EDIT: This question is about microeconomic theory, not set theory. Directly following is an answer related to microeconomics. Further below is a set-theoretic answer, which I'm going to leave there in case someone searches for similar keywords.
Microeconomic Answer:
In economic preference, we say that a relation is complete if and only if for all $A,B$, we have $A \succsim B$ or $B \succsim A$ or both. So consider $A,B,C$ such that $A\succsim B$ and $B \succsim C$. Then the relation is not complete because we do not have an explicit relationship $A \succsim C$. However, we can infer one by transitivity: if $A\succsim B$ and $B \succsim C$, then by transitivity $A \succsim C$, though technically the relation is not `complete'.
Set-Theoretic Answer:
I don't understand your terms (what do you mean with completeness?). So I am somewhat guessing at what your question actually asks. Please comment with clarifications so I can provide a better answer.
A relation $R$ on a set $X$ is a subset of $X \times X$.
An equivalence relation on $X$ is a relation $R$ on $X$ such that:
Your notion of completeness seems to be a restatement of trichotomy: in an ordered set, one of the three is true: $a=b$, or $a>b$, or $a<b$.
Notably, we can have transitivity in terms of an equivalence relation on a set, while the set itself is unordered and not transitive. Is this what you mean?