For me that subtracting a negative number becomes addition is currently magic. I have watched and read a number of "explanations" and they all basically boils down to:
-- = +
Which for me is magic!
None of these sources have been able to give me a logical and mentally understandable explanation about how exactly subtracting a negative number becomes addition.
As a frame of reference, the below makes sense:
2 + (-4) = -2
For me this is logical. It that tells that the number to add starts at a minus, a deficit.
However how:
2 - (-4)
becomes
2 + 4
is beyond my current understanding of how math works.
The closest I can get is that negative + negative is somehow turning into positive. But that to me is currently just a magical rule.
I think I have missed something very important here, something that makes what I at the moment see as illogical for others clearly is logical and makes perfect sense.
I would be immensely grateful to the person who will take their own time to explain to me how this works, because right now I am very stuck.






Let's see if a geometry approach helps.
Draw a number line, on the number line mark down the location of $-4$ and the location of $2$.
We would want the distance between them to be equal to $2-(-4)$.
The distance between $2$ and $0$ is $2-0$, the distance between $-4$ and $0$ is $4$. Hence the distance between $2$ and $-4$ would be $2+4$.
Hence we would want $2-(-4)=2+4$.