It is claimed that the law of excluded middle : $A \lor \neg A$, is a necessary principle for proving statements by contradiction (i.e. non constructively).
However, in first order logic, at least, proofs by contradiction may go as follows : If $\{T\ \cup \ \neg p\}\vdash p$, then by the deduction theorem, $T \vdash (\neg p \rightarrow p) $, and then by the logical axiom $(\neg p \rightarrow p) \rightarrow p$ and modus ponens, $T \vdash ~p$.
So it seems $A \lor \neg A$ is never used in the above. In what sense is it then needed for non constructive proofs?
A proof by contradiction is not $\{T\ \cup \ \neg p\}\vdash p$. It is $\{T\ \cup \ \neg p\}\vdash \neg q$, where $q$ is a proposition such that $T \vdash q$.
For example, a proof by contradiction may terminates by $0=1$ or $0>1$ or anything else "obviously" (for the point of view of the theory $T$) false. This is why proof by contradiction is also called "proof ad absurdum".
So, in a proof by contradiction, you start with $\{T\ \cup \ \neg p\}\vdash p$ and somehow obtain $\{T\ \cup \ \neg p\}\vdash \neg q$ for some $q$ with $T \vdash q$. So, it means that $\{T\ \cup \ \neg p\}\vdash (\neg q \wedge q)$. This is now where the Law of Excluded Middle is invoked.