I recently asked a question on this forum regarding why 3 points guaranteed the presence or absence of a unique equation representing a specific circle.
(link here What do "3 different points" have to do with linear dependence in determining a unique circle?)
Shortly after this, I came across a question in my book that provided a picture of 4 red dots (image below) and asked, "How many ellipses do these 4 red points define". Having read the comments on my post with the circle, I thought that this was fairly straight forward.
I chose " 1 ".
This was wrong. The answer was infinite. This caught me as surprising as I didn't think of the equations for a circle and an ellipse as differing by much beyond a scaling factor for each quadratic term.
I know that the general equation for an ellipse is as follows:
$$\left(\frac{x-h}a\right)^2 + \left(\frac{y-k}b\right)^2 = 1$$
The only thing I can think of is that because of the added scaling factors, there are now technically two additional unknowns (for a total of 4 different unknowns... h, a, k, and b), and therefore I need 4 points to specify an unique ellipse.
However, I thought to myself again, even if the ellipse is not centered at the origin, if all 4 given points happened to coincide with the intersection between the major axis and the ellipse and the minor axis and the ellipse, then certainly that would specify an unique ellipse.
If this is true, then why does the arrangement of the points matter in determining whether or not an unique ellipse is specified?
Visual explanations would be greatly appreciated!

The equation $\left(\frac{x-h}{a}\right)^2 + \left( \frac{y-k}{b}\right)^2 = 1$ is the equation for an ellipse with major and minor axes parallel to the coordinate axes. We expect such ellipses to be unchanged under horizontal reflection and under vertical reflection through their axes. In this equation, these reflections are effected by $x \mapsto 2h - x$ and $y \mapsto 2k -y$.
This means, if all you have is one point on the ellipse and the three reflected images of this point, you do not have $8$ independent coordinates; you have $2$ and uninformative reflections forced by the equation.
We can see this by plotting two ellipses at the same center (same $h$ and $k$), intersecting at $4$ points, with, say, semiaxes of length $1$ and $2$.
These clearly have four points of intersection. But as soon as you know an ellipse is centered at the origin and contains any one of the four points of intersection, by the major and minor axis reflection symmetries, it contains all four. This is still true if you use generic ellipses, which can be rotated.
Remember that the reflections are through the major and minor axes, wherever they are.
Of course, there are other ways for two ellipses to intersect at four points.
So just knowing those four points are on an ellipse cannot possibly tell you which one is intended.
Returning to the first diagram, corresponding to the diagram you have where the four known points are the vertices of a square... Symmetries force the center of the ellipse to be the center of the square, but that's not a very strong constraint.